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Anger
Ps 37:8 cease from anger and forsake wrath
Prov 14:29 he that is slow to wrath is of great understanding
Prov 15:18 he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife
Prov 16:32 he that is slow to anger is better than the mighty
Prov 29:22 an angry man stirreth up strife; and a furious man aboundeth in transgression
Matt 5:21-22 whosoever is angry is in danger of God’s judgment (see 3Ne 12:21-22)
1 Cor 4:10-12 being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it
Eph 4:26, 31 let not the sun go down upon your wrath; put away anger
Col 3:8 put off anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication
3Ne 6:12-13 some…would not turn and revile again, but were humble
3Ne 11:28-30 contention is not of God; God does not stir up anger
3Ne 12:21-22 whosoever is angry is in danger of God’s judgment (see Matt 5:21-22)
Moro 9:5 so exceedingly do they anger . . . they have lost their love
DC 19:30 revile not against revilers
DC 31:9 be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile
 
Contention and Disputation
Prov 13:10 by pride cometh contention
Prov 28:25 a proud heart stirreth up strife
1 Cor 11:16 contention not the custom in the churches of God
Col 3:12-14 if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another
Titus 3:9 avoid contention and strivings about the law
2Ne 26:32 God hath commanded men to not contend nor have malice
Mos 2:32 beware of contentions
Mos 4:14 not suffer children to fight and quarrel one with another
Mos 18:21 there should be no contention one with another
Mos 23:15 love your neighbors; there should be no contention
Mos 28:1-2 preaching the word of God cures hatred and contention
3Ne 11:28 there shall be no disputations among you
3Ne 11:29-30 contention is not of God; God does not stir up anger
3Ne 18:34 blessed are ye if ye have no disputations
4Ne 1:2 there were no disputations among them
4Ne 1:15-17 no contention in the land because of the love of God in their hearts
DC 101:6 contentions, jarrings, strifes among Saints pollute inheritances
DC 136:23 cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another
 
Communicating Grievances
Ex 20:16 thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor
Prov 15:1 a soft answer turneth away wrath
Prov 18:13 answering a matter before hearing it is folly
Eccl 3:1,7 to everything there is…a time to keep silence, and a time to speak
Matt 5:25-26 agree with thine adversary quickly (see 3Ne 12:25-26)
Matt 18:15-17 if thy brother trespass against thee, go tell him…alone
Eph 4:15 speaking the truth in love
Eph 4:29 let no corrupt communication proceed from your mouth but that which is...edifying
James 1:19-20 be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath
1Pet 3:8-11 be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace
Mos 12:27 ye have not applied your hearts to understanding; therefore, ye have not been wise
Alma 7:23 be easy to be entreated, full of patience and long suffering
3Ne 12: 25-26 agree with thine adversary quickly (see Matt 5:25-26)
DC 19:30 revile not against revilers
DC 20:54 see that there is no…backbiting, nor evil speaking
DC 31:9 be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile
DC 42:27 thou shalt not speak evil of thy neighbor, nor do him any harm
DC 42:88-93 if offended, talk to your brother or sister alone, not before the world
DC 50:23 that which doth not edify is not of God
DC 88:122 let one speak at a time and let all listen
DC 88:124 cease to find fault one with another
DC 108:7 strengthen your brethren in all your conversation . . . and in all your doings
DC 121:41-44 influence of the priesthood only by persuasion, long-suffering, gentleness, love, etc.
DC 136:23 cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another
 
Defense
Alma 43:45-47 be not guilty of first or second offense, but defend families, country, rights, etc.
Alma 48:11-16 never give an offense except to defend against enemies and to preserve lives
Alma 61:10-14 we will resist wickedness. . . with our words. . . and our swords
3 Ne 3:20-21 we will not go against them; but wait till they come against us
DC 98:23-32 if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times
DC 98:33-38 if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace
DC 134:11 all men justified in defending themselves for unlawful assaults and encroachments
 
Forbearance
Matt 5:38-42 if smitten, turn the other cheek (see 3Ne 12:38-42)
Matt 26:52 they that take the sword shall perish with the sword
Luke 6:27-36 love your enemies; do good to them which hate you (see JST)
1 Cor 4:10-12 being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it
1 Cor 6:6-8 why do ye not rather take wrong?
1 Cor 13:4-7 charity suffereth long, beareth all things (see Moro 7:45)
Eph 4:1-3 with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love...in the bond of peace
Col 3:12-14 if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another
1 Thes 5:14-15 be patient; see that none render evil for evil unto any man
1 Pet 3:8-11 be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace
Alma 1:19-25 they bore with patience the persecution heaped upon them
Alma 7:23 be easy to be entreated, full of patience and long suffering
Alma 34:40-41 do not revile against those who cast you out; bear afflictions patiently
3Ne 6:12-13 some…would not turn and revile again, but were humble
3Ne 12:38-42 if smitten, turn the other cheek (see Matt 5:38-42)
Moro 7:45 charity suffereth long, is not easily provoked, beareth all things (see 1 Cor 13:4-7)
DC 31:9 be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile
DC 42:27 thou shalt not speak evil of thy neighbor, nor do him any harm
DC 98:23-32 if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times
 
Forgiveness
Matt 6:14-15 if ye forgive men their trespasses, God will forgive you (see 3Ne 13:14-15)
Matt 18:21-35 forgive until seventy times seven; parable of the unmerciful servant
Luke 17:3-4 if thy brother trespass against thee, forgive him
Eph 4:32 be ye kind, forgiving one to another
Col 3:12-14 if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another
Mos 26:31 he that forgiveth not his neighbor…when he repents, brings condemnation
3Ne 13:14-15 if ye forgive men their trespasses, God will forgive you (see Matt 6:14-15)
DC 64:6-11 Lord requires us to forgive all men
DC 82:1 if we forgive one another, Lord will forgive us
DC 98:39-48 if thine enemy repents, thou shalt forgive him
 
Judgment
Matt 7:1-5 judge not, that ye be not judged; cast out the beam from thine eye (see 3Ne 14:1-5)
Luke 6:37-38 judge not and condemn not, that ye be not judged and condemned
Rom 2:1-3 wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself
3Ne 14:1-5 judge not, that ye be not judged; cast out the beam from thine eye (see Matt 7:1-5)
Morm 8:19-20 the same that judgeth rashly shall be judged rashly again; judgment is the Lord’s
DC 82:23 leave judgment alone, the Lord will repay
DC 88:124 cease to find fault one with another
 
Love Enemies
Lev 19:18 thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge, but love thy neighbor as thyself
Matt 5:43-47 love your enemies; do good to them that hate you (see 3Ne 12:43-45)
Matt 7:12 whatsoever ye would that men do should do to you, do to them (see 3Ne 14:12)
Luke 6:27-38 love your enemies; do good to them which hate you (see JST)
Rom 12:17-21 vengeance is mine saith the Lord; do good to enemies
1 Cor 13:4-7 charity suffereth long, beareth all things (see Moro 7:45)
3Ne 12:43-45 love your enemies; do good to them that hate you (see Matt 5:43-47)
3Ne 14:12 whatsoever ye would that men do should do to you, do to them (see Matt 7:12)
Moro 7:45 charity suffereth long, is not easily provoked, beareth all things (see 1 Cor 13:4-7)
DC 82:19-20 every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God
 
Offense
Prov 18:19 a brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city
Isa 29:1-2 that make an offender for a word (see 2Ne 27:31-32)
Matt 18:7 woe unto those who give offense
Matt 18:15-17 if thy brother trespass against thee, go tell him…alone
Luke 17:1 woe unto him through whom offenses come
Luke 17:3-4 if thy brother trespass against thee, forgive him
1 Cor 10:32 give none offense, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles
2 Cor 6:3 giving no offense in anything
2Ne 2:11-15 for it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things
2Ne 27:31-32 that make an offender for a word (see Isa 29:1-2)
Alma 43:45-47 be not guilty of first or second offense, but defend families, country, rights, etc.
Alma 48:11-16 never give an offense except to defend against enemies and to preserve lives
DC 42:88-93 if offended, talk to your brother or sister alone, not before the world
DC 134:8 for public peace and tranquility, bring offenders against good laws to punishment
 
Peacemaking
Lev 26:3,6 if ye walk in my statutes. . . I will give peace in the land
Isa 32:17 the work of righteousness shall be peace and the effect . . .quietness
Isa 54:13 taught of the Lord, great shall be the peace of thy children
Isa 57:20-21 there is no peace, saith my God, to the wicked
Micah 4:2-3 he will teach us of his ways. . . and they shall beat their swords into plowshares
Matt 5:9 blessed are the peacemakers (see 3Ne 12:9)
Matt 5:23-24 seek reconciliation with thy brother before coming to altar of God (see 3Ne 12:23-24)
Matt 5:25-26 agree with thine adversary quickly (see 3Ne 12:25-26)
John 14:27 my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth
John 16:33 these things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace
Rom 14:19 follow after the things which make for peace and edify another
2Cor 13:11 be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you
James 3:14-18 contrasts strife and peacefulness
1Pet 3:8-11 be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace
Mos 4:9-14 how to live peaceably
3Ne 12: 23-24 seek reconciliation with thy brother before coming to God (see Matt 5:23-24)
Moro 7:3-4 peaceable followers of Christ obtain hope and walk peaceably with men
DC 50:23 that which doth not edify is not of God
DC 59:23 he who doeth the works of righteousness shall receive…peace
DC 82:19-20 every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God
DC 88:125 clothe yourselves with the bond of charity…which is the bond of … peace
DC 98:16 renounce war and proclaim peace
DC 98:33-38 if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace
DC 105:38-40 sue for peace, make proposals of peace to all people
DC 134:8 for public peace and tranquility, bring offenders against good laws to punishment
 
Problem-Solving
Prov 3:5-7 trust in the Lord and lean not unto thine own understanding
Prov 4:7 with all thy getting get understanding
Prov 12:15 fool is right in his own eyes, but he that hearkeneth to counsel is wise
Luke 14:28-32 sitteth not down first and counteth the cost and consulteth whether he be able
1Ne 15:8 have he inquired of the Lord?
2Ne 32:3-5 the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do
Mosiah 12:27 Ye have not applied your hearts to understanding
Alma 37:37 counsel with the Lord in all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good
DC 9:7-9 you must study it out in your mind, then you must ask
DC 46:7 ye are commanded in all things to ask of God, who giveth liberally
DC 82:19-20 every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God
DC 88:124 cease to find fault one with another
DC 136:19 any man…seeketh not my counsel…shall have no power
DC 136:20 keep all your pledges one with another
DC 136:23 cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another
DC 136:25-26 if thou borrowest of thy neighbor, thou shalt restore
 
Vengeance
Lev 19:18 thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge, but love thy neighbor as thyself
Prov 20:22 say not thou, I will recompense evil, but wait on the Lord
Matt 5:38-42 if smitten, turn the other cheek (see 3Ne 12:38-42)
Rom 12:17-21 vengeance is mine saith the Lord; do good to enemies
1Thes 5:14-15 be patient; see that none render evil for evil unto any man
Heb 10:30 vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord
1Pet 3:8-11 be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace
3Ne 12:38-42 if smitten, turn the other cheek (see Matt 5:38-42)
Mormon 8:20 judgement and vengence are the Lord's; He will repay
DC 24:17 whosoever shall go to law with thee shall be cursed by the law
DC 82:23 leave judgment alone, the Lord will repay
DC 98:23-32 if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times
DC 98:33-38 if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace
DC 98:39-48 if thine enemy does not repent, I, the Lord, will avenge thee

 
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