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| Anger |
| Ps 37:8 | cease from anger and forsake wrath |
| Prov 14:29 | he that is slow to wrath is of great understanding |
| Prov 15:18 | he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife |
| Prov 16:32 | he that is slow to anger is better than the mighty |
| Prov 29:22 | an angry man stirreth up strife; and a furious man aboundeth in transgression |
| Matt 5:21-22 | whosoever is angry is in danger of God’s judgment (see 3Ne 12:21-22) |
| 1 Cor 4:10-12 | being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it |
| Eph 4:26, 31 | let not the sun go down upon your wrath; put away anger |
| Col 3:8 | put off anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication |
| 3Ne 6:12-13 | some…would not turn and revile again, but were humble |
| 3Ne 11:28-30 | contention is not of God; God does not stir up anger |
| 3Ne 12:21-22 | whosoever is angry is in danger of God’s judgment (see Matt 5:21-22) |
| Moro 9:5 | so exceedingly do they anger . . . they have lost their love |
| DC 19:30 | revile not against revilers |
| DC 31:9 | be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile |
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| Contention and Disputation |
| Prov 13:10 | by pride cometh contention |
| Prov 28:25 | a proud heart stirreth up strife |
| 1 Cor 11:16 | contention not the custom in the churches of God |
| Col 3:12-14 | if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another |
| Titus 3:9 | avoid contention and strivings about the law |
| 2Ne 26:32 | God hath commanded men to not contend nor have malice |
| Mos 2:32 | beware of contentions |
| Mos 4:14 | not suffer children to fight and quarrel one with another |
| Mos 18:21 | there should be no contention one with another |
| Mos 23:15 | love your neighbors; there should be no contention |
| Mos 28:1-2 | preaching the word of God cures hatred and contention |
| 3Ne 11:28 | there shall be no disputations among you |
| 3Ne 11:29-30 | contention is not of God; God does not stir up anger |
| 3Ne 18:34 | blessed are ye if ye have no disputations |
| 4Ne 1:2 | there were no disputations among them |
| 4Ne 1:15-17 | no contention in the land because of the love of God in their hearts |
| DC 101:6 | contentions, jarrings, strifes among Saints pollute inheritances |
| DC 136:23 | cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another |
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| Communicating Grievances |
| Ex 20:16 | thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor |
| Prov 15:1 | a soft answer turneth away wrath |
| Prov 18:13 | answering a matter before hearing it is folly |
| Eccl 3:1,7 | to everything there is…a time to keep silence, and a time to speak |
| Matt 5:25-26 | agree with thine adversary quickly (see 3Ne 12:25-26) |
| Matt 18:15-17 | if thy brother trespass against thee, go tell him…alone |
| Eph 4:15 | speaking the truth in love |
| Eph 4:29 | let no corrupt communication proceed from your mouth but that which is...edifying |
| James 1:19-20 | be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath |
| 1Pet 3:8-11 | be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace |
| Mos 12:27 | ye have not applied your hearts to understanding; therefore, ye have not been wise |
| Alma 7:23 | be easy to be entreated, full of patience and long suffering |
| 3Ne 12: 25-26 | agree with thine adversary quickly (see Matt 5:25-26) |
| DC 19:30 | revile not against revilers |
| DC 20:54 | see that there is no…backbiting, nor evil speaking |
| DC 31:9 | be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile |
| DC 42:27 | thou shalt not speak evil of thy neighbor, nor do him any harm |
| DC 42:88-93 | if offended, talk to your brother or sister alone, not before the world |
| DC 50:23 | that which doth not edify is not of God |
| DC 88:122 | let one speak at a time and let all listen |
| DC 88:124 | cease to find fault one with another |
| DC 108:7 | strengthen your brethren in all your conversation . . . and in all your doings |
| DC 121:41-44 | influence of the priesthood only by persuasion, long-suffering, gentleness, love, etc. |
| DC 136:23 | cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another |
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| Defense |
| Alma 43:45-47 | be not guilty of first or second offense, but defend families, country, rights, etc. |
| Alma 48:11-16 | never give an offense except to defend against enemies and to preserve lives |
| Alma 61:10-14 | we will resist wickedness. . . with our words. . . and our swords |
| 3 Ne 3:20-21 | we will not go against them; but wait till they come against us |
| DC 98:23-32 | if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times |
| DC 98:33-38 | if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace |
| DC 134:11 | all men justified in defending themselves for unlawful assaults and encroachments |
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| Forbearance |
| Matt 5:38-42 | if smitten, turn the other cheek (see 3Ne 12:38-42) |
| Matt 26:52 | they that take the sword shall perish with the sword |
| Luke 6:27-36 | love your enemies; do good to them which hate you (see JST) |
| 1 Cor 4:10-12 | being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it |
| 1 Cor 6:6-8 | why do ye not rather take wrong? |
| 1 Cor 13:4-7 | charity suffereth long, beareth all things (see Moro 7:45) |
| Eph 4:1-3 | with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love...in the bond of peace |
| Col 3:12-14 | if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another |
| 1 Thes 5:14-15 | be patient; see that none render evil for evil unto any man |
| 1 Pet 3:8-11 | be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace |
| Alma 1:19-25 | they bore with patience the persecution heaped upon them |
| Alma 7:23 | be easy to be entreated, full of patience and long suffering |
| Alma 34:40-41 | do not revile against those who cast you out; bear afflictions patiently |
| 3Ne 6:12-13 | some…would not turn and revile again, but were humble |
| 3Ne 12:38-42 | if smitten, turn the other cheek (see Matt 5:38-42) |
| Moro 7:45 | charity suffereth long, is not easily provoked, beareth all things (see 1 Cor 13:4-7) |
| DC 31:9 | be patient in afflictions, revile not against those that revile |
| DC 42:27 | thou shalt not speak evil of thy neighbor, nor do him any harm |
| DC 98:23-32 | if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times |
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| Forgiveness |
| Matt 6:14-15 | if ye forgive men their trespasses, God will forgive you (see 3Ne 13:14-15) |
| Matt 18:21-35 | forgive until seventy times seven; parable of the unmerciful servant |
| Luke 17:3-4 | if thy brother trespass against thee, forgive him |
| Eph 4:32 | be ye kind, forgiving one to another |
| Col 3:12-14 | if any man have a quarrel, forbear and forgive one another |
| Mos 26:31 | he that forgiveth not his neighbor…when he repents, brings condemnation |
| 3Ne 13:14-15 | if ye forgive men their trespasses, God will forgive you (see Matt 6:14-15) |
| DC 64:6-11 | Lord requires us to forgive all men |
| DC 82:1 | if we forgive one another, Lord will forgive us |
| DC 98:39-48 | if thine enemy repents, thou shalt forgive him |
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| Judgment |
| Matt 7:1-5 | judge not, that ye be not judged; cast out the beam from thine eye (see 3Ne 14:1-5) |
| Luke 6:37-38 | judge not and condemn not, that ye be not judged and condemned |
| Rom 2:1-3 | wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself |
| 3Ne 14:1-5 | judge not, that ye be not judged; cast out the beam from thine eye (see Matt 7:1-5) |
| Morm 8:19-20 | the same that judgeth rashly shall be judged rashly again; judgment is the Lord’s |
| DC 82:23 | leave judgment alone, the Lord will repay |
| DC 88:124 | cease to find fault one with another |
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| Love Enemies |
| Lev 19:18 | thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge, but love thy neighbor as thyself |
| Matt 5:43-47 | love your enemies; do good to them that hate you (see 3Ne 12:43-45) |
| Matt 7:12 | whatsoever ye would that men do should do to you, do to them (see 3Ne 14:12) |
| Luke 6:27-38 | love your enemies; do good to them which hate you (see JST) |
| Rom 12:17-21 | vengeance is mine saith the Lord; do good to enemies |
| 1 Cor 13:4-7 | charity suffereth long, beareth all things (see Moro 7:45) |
| 3Ne 12:43-45 | love your enemies; do good to them that hate you (see Matt 5:43-47) |
| 3Ne 14:12 | whatsoever ye would that men do should do to you, do to them (see Matt 7:12) |
| Moro 7:45 | charity suffereth long, is not easily provoked, beareth all things (see 1 Cor 13:4-7) |
| DC 82:19-20 | every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God |
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| Offense |
| Prov 18:19 | a brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city |
| Isa 29:1-2 | that make an offender for a word (see 2Ne 27:31-32) |
| Matt 18:7 | woe unto those who give offense |
| Matt 18:15-17 | if thy brother trespass against thee, go tell him…alone |
| Luke 17:1 | woe unto him through whom offenses come |
| Luke 17:3-4 | if thy brother trespass against thee, forgive him |
| 1 Cor 10:32 | give none offense, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles |
| 2 Cor 6:3 | giving no offense in anything |
| 2Ne 2:11-15 | for it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things |
| 2Ne 27:31-32 | that make an offender for a word (see Isa 29:1-2) |
| Alma 43:45-47 | be not guilty of first or second offense, but defend families, country, rights, etc. |
| Alma 48:11-16 | never give an offense except to defend against enemies and to preserve lives |
| DC 42:88-93 | if offended, talk to your brother or sister alone, not before the world |
| DC 134:8 | for public peace and tranquility, bring offenders against good laws to punishment |
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| Peacemaking |
| Lev 26:3,6 | if ye walk in my statutes. . . I will give peace in the land |
| Isa 32:17 | the work of righteousness shall be peace and the effect . . .quietness |
| Isa 54:13 | taught of the Lord, great shall be the peace of thy children |
| Isa 57:20-21 | there is no peace, saith my God, to the wicked |
| Micah 4:2-3 | he will teach us of his ways. . . and they shall beat their swords into plowshares |
| Matt 5:9 | blessed are the peacemakers (see 3Ne 12:9) |
| Matt 5:23-24 | seek reconciliation with thy brother before coming to altar of God (see 3Ne 12:23-24) |
| Matt 5:25-26 | agree with thine adversary quickly (see 3Ne 12:25-26) |
| John 14:27 | my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth |
| John 16:33 | these things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace |
| Rom 14:19 | follow after the things which make for peace and edify another |
| 2Cor 13:11 | be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you |
| James 3:14-18 | contrasts strife and peacefulness |
| 1Pet 3:8-11 | be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace |
| Mos 4:9-14 | how to live peaceably |
| 3Ne 12: 23-24 | seek reconciliation with thy brother before coming to God (see Matt 5:23-24) |
| Moro 7:3-4 | peaceable followers of Christ obtain hope and walk peaceably with men |
| DC 50:23 | that which doth not edify is not of God |
| DC 59:23 | he who doeth the works of righteousness shall receive…peace |
| DC 82:19-20 | every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God |
| DC 88:125 | clothe yourselves with the bond of charity…which is the bond of … peace |
| DC 98:16 | renounce war and proclaim peace |
| DC 98:33-38 | if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace |
| DC 105:38-40 | sue for peace, make proposals of peace to all people |
| DC 134:8 | for public peace and tranquility, bring offenders against good laws to punishment |
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| Problem-Solving |
| Prov 3:5-7 | trust in the Lord and lean not unto thine own understanding |
| Prov 4:7 | with all thy getting get understanding |
| Prov 12:15 | fool is right in his own eyes, but he that hearkeneth to counsel is wise |
| Luke 14:28-32 | sitteth not down first and counteth the cost and consulteth whether he be able |
| 1Ne 15:8 | have he inquired of the Lord? |
| 2Ne 32:3-5 | the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do |
| Mosiah 12:27 | Ye have not applied your hearts to understanding |
| Alma 37:37 | counsel with the Lord in all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good |
| DC 9:7-9 | you must study it out in your mind, then you must ask |
| DC 46:7 | ye are commanded in all things to ask of God, who giveth liberally |
| DC 82:19-20 | every man seeking the interest of his neighbor—is the order of God |
| DC 88:124 | cease to find fault one with another |
| DC 136:19 | any man…seeketh not my counsel…shall have no power |
| DC 136:20 | keep all your pledges one with another |
| DC 136:23 | cease to contend one with another; cease to speak evil one of another |
| DC 136:25-26 | if thou borrowest of thy neighbor, thou shalt restore |
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| Vengeance |
| Lev 19:18 | thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge, but love thy neighbor as thyself |
| Prov 20:22 | say not thou, I will recompense evil, but wait on the Lord |
| Matt 5:38-42 | if smitten, turn the other cheek (see 3Ne 12:38-42) |
| Rom 12:17-21 | vengeance is mine saith the Lord; do good to enemies |
| 1Thes 5:14-15 | be patient; see that none render evil for evil unto any man |
| Heb 10:30 | vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord |
| 1Pet 3:8-11 | be courteous, not rendering evil for evil; refrain tongue from evil; seek peace |
| 3Ne 12:38-42 | if smitten, turn the other cheek (see Matt 5:38-42) |
| Mormon 8:20 | judgement and vengence are the Lord's; He will repay |
| DC 24:17 | whosoever shall go to law with thee shall be cursed by the law |
| DC 82:23 | leave judgment alone, the Lord will repay |
| DC 98:23-32 | if smitten, bear it patiently at least three times |
| DC 98:33-38 | if war is proclaimed, first lift a standard of peace |
| DC 98:39-48 | if thine enemy does not repent, I, the Lord, will avenge thee |